Recent content by Savage

Wow I'm glad I stopped by here to ask this question. A massive thank you to all for your support and insight. It really has helped me gain some perspective on the matter. Now I'm off to give my wife a big hug.

My wife does! I would like to be free to persue relationships outside of our marriage. Im not asking her to change or see other people, I ask for the freedom to be myself without restriction. Why should my/our entering into an open relationship require the end of our current relationship...

Hi, Would it be fair to say that by not allowing me to have an open relationship I am being treated as a possession, therefore i am being objectified? I might be totally off here so please feel free to share your opinions.

Yes I have had a similar difficult dilemma. (My thread titled "Should I tell my wife?" is where my story is.) In short, you are going to have to tell her. I think this is great advice. Even armed with this advice, it ain't easy. Think about it. Maybe even make some notes about what you need...

Update Hi all, just thought I'd drop by and give an update as to how things are going. Since my last discussion with Z I have been on a roller coaster ride of emotional stress. My wife only has 6 weeks now until our baby is born and I am filled with excitement, the bump is massive and the baby...

Hi everyone :) Well, it was only a matter of time before she outright asked if I was ok and what was bothering me, I said there was quite a lot on my mind and I was figuring things out. I knew instantly I was going to have to tell her very soon as I couldn't leave anything like this hanging...

It my own fault, A just pinged me hi, I was of course happy to here from her. I asked if she would like to meet for coffee and a muffin, I guess to catch up. It was her asking me if Z would mind that got me thinking what the hell am I doing. Its best for all that I take a cold shower and...

Thanks So much to think about, I haven't been sleeping properly since A contacted me on facebook. SC - I was totally ready to have A move in with Z and myself when I first fell for A, that was what seemed to make perfect sense to me at the time. When I sat and had a chat with Z she appreciated...

Hi, I am new here, having read a load of posts I have decided I should prob seek your advice before doing anything I might regret. I have been married to my amazing wife (Z) for over 10 years now and have been truthful and honest to her all the way. We have a 3yo child and one on the way :) I...