Recent content by Scarletghost

Voyager, this is amazing, and I want to give it the reply it deserves, but have to cook dinner now. I have thoughts, can't wait to share them :)

Thank you all so much for your insights! It's extremely helpful to have objective viewpoints. I feel like only my feelings are being told, and I will ask my husband to join and comment to explain his feelings too (it's not likely to happen, but I'll try). I think it would be good to have a...

I definitely do NOT want to cultivate the finger-wagging matron persona, but am I out of line for expecting honesty and faithfulness (unless otherwise agreed-upon, which it hasn't always been when he's been caught hiding things from me)? ><;; Ugh

Thank you both for your input! Forgive the long post, I'm finding clarity in my feelings through the act of writing them out, lol! As for the questing of whether this is as far as we intend the openness to go, at this time, yes. I know myself well enough to know that I am not the type who can...

Thanks for the insight! Yeah, it's felt like it's always there on his mind, even if he's not actively looking at the app. Like it's taking all his willpower to resist being glued to the phone every moment of downtime he has. Like he was literally checking Kik while driving with me in the...

Oh we've had that speculative discussion before! Also, he tends to seek out the more "real" looking people. For example, he's currently in ongoing contact with a girl in her early 20s in the Philippines. She's some sort of accountant. She's sent him live photos periodically during conversation...

Just completed the first week of hubby and I allowing one another to have fun on Kik. We aren't open to physical or face-to-face relationships with others, and I'm having a really hard time finding info or "BTDT" stuff that might pertain to online-only openness. Seeking any advice you all may...

The husband and I are exploring some new arrangements. Figured this would be a great place to read about others' experiences, get advice, etc. Thanks for having me :)