Hi kdt!
Yes, it's quite something... Sometimes it feels like a case of a veil over A's eyes that they are not realizing really is there. It is totally possible for one to get so overwhelmed with a perspective that it does become so perplexingly impossible for them to see or feel harmlessly...
I couldnt hear ya any louder my friend. I've researched polyamory and love a good read or tasteful media depicting all forms of love & life and have even talked to A about this very thing a few times - the only few times I was able to get words in much before I would feel bad at the way A clams...
Thank you, it actually brought a bit of water to my eyes feeling like a book. It is a pleasant bittersweet refresher. Your words are very appreciated for more than I can word.
I fully agree with you on the "no matter what" portion, this is just a mishap of faulty word choice I can confidently...
For starters, primary partner expressed poly being a nice concept early on in our long 10 year relationship. I'll be 25 this year. Things have been rocky between us 6 years in, but it was chalked up to growing pains. While I regret the hopeful optimism as I'm feeling he hasn't grown up over the...