Recent content by Seattleite

Bump! How did this develop, Kidd?

I wonder what is the distinction between dating and being involved in a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) in poly. Mono people I think begin a serious relationship with exclusivity.. what's the poly equivalent? Say, your negotiated rules are complete freedom to see whomever you please.

How would you share them? It's hard to be detached. And how would you feel about receiving such news, especially from someone you've only been involved with for a month? Say, you have a life, you are enjoying it, and someone wants to be bumped on your priority list. Would it make you like them more?

Now we are both having a confused look. You don't need labels to define YOU, but you need labels to define my relationship? OK, let's look at it closer. What's your definition of "relationship" and "single"? We've known each other for two months, have been intimate for a month, spent 3 crazy...

Am I being too needy? My first post here. Hello everybody! I am in the middle of a NRE with a single poly guy. At first, there was no attraction on my part at all, but things kinda grew on me. These days, I think of the guy a lot. I feel his presence next to me. He does not, apparently. He...