Recent content by Sekhmet

I think he's still in NRE. Not saying he's not in love, but I think part of it is NRE. He says he goes to sleep thinking about her and wakes up thinking about her. That sounds like infatuation to me. I don't know. I feel very insecure right now. Q is not being as affectionate as usual with...

So...that was dramatic.:o True, but dramatic. Sorry about that. I wasn't in a good place when I posted. Truthfully, my place hasn't changed much, but I don't feel broken anymore, so I'll take it. Q says he still loves me, but he's "more" in love with her. She's not interested in being poly...

Miss M has decided she just wants to be with Q, and doesn't want to be the mistress anymore. Q is thinking about leaving me. I'm devastated.

I've got a pile I've been saving up: :eek::confused: Umm...no. That's nice?:confused::rolleyes:

It's been an age since I've updated. I still lurk quite a bit though. :p Q and Miss M are still happy and seeing each other 3 times a week, one of those being an overnight. They get extra time together here and there. Things between the three of us are good. My birthday was this weekend and we...

Been a long time since I posted. Things are going well with Miss M and Q. They even took a 4 day trip out of state together. They had a good time and I had no breakdowns. I did have a few moments of loneliness, but nothing terrible. Q and I were supposed to go to Vegas, to meet this couple...

Been a long time since I posted. Things are going well with Miss M and Q. They even took a 4 day trip out of state together. They had a good time and I had no breakdowns. I did have a few moments of loneliness, but nothing terrible. Q and I were supposed to go to Vegas, to meet this couple...

So, I've been on two dates since I posted last. One with a guy who was in town for only a week (on tour with a show) and another with the guy who canceled before. No sparks with either, but I had a good time with both. Tour guy was nice and said he'd like to get together again if I'm still...

Him: you crazy lady! You are far away! Me: This is true. You looked at my profile first though! Him: nice tits Yeah, no.:rolleyes:

Q and I are, and always have been, fluid bonded. He was my first, we were committed/mono and he'd been tested and I didn't want my first time to be with a condom. We did non-PIV sexytimes for months beforehand though. I've told him that if he and Miss M get to that point, I wouldn't mind if...

Oh, I started on the Nuvaring too! My doctors finally heard that I just want to try it and yes, I realize it might not do what I want it to do, but I want to try it anyway. I've been on it for like a week. And I've been spotting for 2 1/2 which is making me crazy (sorry, TMI) and complicating my...

Bit of an update. Q and I are good. Q and Miss M are good. No news with the known players. I've had a date, have one scheduled with a different guy, and am talking to another guy out of state. I met all three of them on OKC. My date went well, but I didn't see it going further. Unfortunately...

I don't think you're being harsh; I think you're being realistic. Q has a past of meth addiction too. We got together when he was only a year or so clean (I think?) but it's not a path I'd recommend to everyone. I don't know what you should do, but it looks like you're going in slowly and with...

I'm a stepmom and am very active in a couple stepmom forums. I agree that your girlfriend probably shouldn't parent your son, at least not early on. What I've heard recommended is referred to as the Lady of the House Rule. Basically, it means that if it effects her, she, as a Lady of the House...

He can and does use a condom with Miss M. I realize I wasn't clear, sorry! I was saying that condoms are not an option for him and me. It's not what we want. I was projecting my feelings (fears?) about him wanting the vas so he didn't have to use barriers with her. I was insecure and worried...