Recent content by Semperfi4ever

Great advice thank you

We have done sleepovers and mostly been great there just been lately seeming hes more about holding her all night and says hes asleep and doesnt realize he hasn't even touched me. I've been used to that for 15years and then to kinda turn it off it's hard. I feel I'm being to hard about it or...

Thanks for reply.... It really helps having a safe place outside the bubble to talk about my feelings and get pure genuine advice. I will definitely work on those things . I do feel kinda alone in this bubble but I love the way they love each other so I dont want to take away from this happy...

In two weeks my husband of 15years and I will welcome our triad in and share our home. We are all new at this my husband and her are so in NRE it all seems amazing. To me I'm scared and not wanting to cause drama. I see all how much everything has changed I just know it's going to change even...

Thank you for all your advice I was just informed after talking to him that I have to make this work or he will leave me for her I'm devastated. 16 years gone .

I think I'm a mixture of both I really didn't think about envious as something creeping up to. I think what I'm struggling is yes they are nre but I feel at times my spouse feels that's the only important relationship to focus on . Also trying to communicate feelings for me is hard they both...

Thank you taking time and responding at times I feel so alone in this process with my feelings but now I see I'm not thank you .

My spouse and I have been married 15 years . We just starting a triad with my best friend and things were great. Now I'm starting to struggle with jealous is this normal ? I am so happy when there together but it just seems like they are needing more and more time alone how do I handle all these...