Recent content by SenecaSky

My dom is okay with me sharing details, unless it's something he specifically asks me not to share, which is a very rare occurrence. Edited to add that we've been discussing ways of easing other pressures. Before we even opened our marriage we had discussed possibly putting the kids back into...

Thank you, KC! I've had such a train wreck of a morning. I have three kids to homeschool, a house to run, an ailing father. I have so much on my plate and I can't deal with this right now. I'm going to give him the details that he wants because I can see that that's what he needs, and I'll send...

Hi all, So we started out opening up in June and assuming we'd do threesomes and such, which we did. Discovered polyamory and I'm in a relationship with another man, which is also a D/s relationship. My husband is feeling left out because I'm hesitant now to share lots of details of my sexual...

Thanks, It actually came up again last night because we started discussing the poly discussion group. He said mainly he likes hearing sexual details because he if he hears anything new and unusual that I really liked doing with boyfriend then maybe he can do it with me, too. (He knows certain...

And something else that I need to discuss with my husband at some point is his desire to know what I and my boyfriend did while we were together. I have no problem saying that we hit the local pizza joint or watched a movie, but he wants to know what we did sexually. I was okay with sharing a...

Thanks everyone, I think he knows he could have a meaningful relationship with less time invested - I think he may just be worried that the next woman will want more of his time like the last. (He has a hard time saying NO) That's where I've suggested laying down boundaries and expectations...

It's more like he's resigning himself to casual/nsa because he feels he doesn't have the time to see someone twice a week or more. He's worried about being away from me and the kids too much. I'm trying to get across that he may find a meaningful relationship which doesn't require that much of...

221 Thank you everyone for the great feedback! I ended up talking with him and I do get the sense, like some of you say, that he may not quite know his own feelings at times and may just not want to get into a lengthy discussion. He did let me know that sometimes when I turn him down for sex...

We've been open for about 9 months or so and initially we weren't going to fall in love with anyone else. That's changed since we discovered polyamory, and my husband said he thought it would work out. He's excited about going to poly and kink events, likes my boyfriend - they have computers...

1104 Thanks, and yes, we've worked out a good schedule. I tend to see my boyfriend about twice a week. We also see each other at poly/kink events. Sometimes all three of us go, or just two of us. Depends on what the event is and the interest level. Occasionally I'll see him during the day in...

Hi, I and my husband have been married 14 years. We discussed an open marriage back in June because my husband had never been with anyone else and was curious about experiencing another woman. I was fine with it, so we opened up. He found a nice lady and they were together for a couple of...