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    How to deal with poly/mono conflict?

    I just want to say thanks... And that I've read a lot on that website, morethantwo, and watched some sexatdawn videos as suggested. It's a little scary but really appealing and I've decided I'm going to move to London and give polyamory a go, see how I respond to it. Philosophically it makes...
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    How to deal with poly/mono conflict?

    Actually, sorry for posting so many times in a row but I think I've figured out what I need. The issue was never our differing sexual attitudes but the lack of understanding of each other's sexual attitudes. I don't get the viewpoint that it's inherently bad to sleep with multiple partners...
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    How to deal with poly/mono conflict?

    "I don't think there's any chance she'll ever be okay with non monogamy." You're right there. If anyone were to capitulate, it would be me. I suppose I'm trying to figure out if I am truly poly or just a bloke who needs a bit of self discipline (my dad was not a positive role model). You all...
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    How to deal with poly/mono conflict?

    Sorry, I didn't mean to offend. I used that term more because she'd maybe see it that way, but I personally do not see anything wrong with polyamory. Well I suppose it wouldn't be loving in the sense that I like the idea of emotionally committing to just one other person. But it would in the...
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    How to deal with poly/mono conflict?

    Have any of you guys been in the situation I'm in? I think I'm basically polyamorous in that I don't feel it's wrong to sleep with multiple persons and I don't think I'd get that jealous if my partner wanted to sleep with someone else if it was just physical. I've not been cheated on as far as...
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