Recent content by Shadow715

Kevin - Thank you! I will dig into these later tonight. Knowledge is the enemy of anxiety after all.

Mags - It isnt years on end. There is a time limit. But I appreciate the reasoning. Thank you.

Mags and Gala - I do appreciate the advice, and the outside perspective on the situation. All I can say for sure is that I need to make an effort. I need to know that no stone was left unturned, in a sense. What I'm looking for more than anything is advice on what I can do to ease the...

Galagirl - I dont really have the energy right now to unpack all the answers to those questions and comments, so I'll just tell you that I'm really considering what you've said, and I'll jump to the end. For my peace of mind, and for my sense of closure should this come to end, I want to give...

Mags - Wow. Ok. Hmmm.. where do I start here? The poly experiment wasnt Warren's dea originally, to be honest. I kind of stumbled into learning about DDlg through a friend who is a little, and when I told him about that, he explained it and helped me understand what it was, and told me that...

Galagirl - Thanks for getting back to me and trying to help me clarify these things. I appreciate it, and I understand the advice comes from a place of kindness and isnt meant to be harsh. As far as deal breakers and hard limits, I dont so much have them, especially in the sense of expressing...

Kevin - I've read Poly Hell, a few times over the last 24 hours since I found this site. I actually just forwarded that article to W a couple minutes ago because he saw me reading it on my phone and got curious when I put my phone down and walked away for a minute. He does love me (he says?)...

I also somehow missed the questions specifically about E. The short version to this is that she was sheltered her entire childhood. And shes still a teenager (of legal age, dont worry) with very little sexual experience. After talking that one over and a couple of arguments between W and I, i...

Galagirl- I dont really understand yet how to use the quote function, so I'm just going to respond to your comments piece by piece in order. 1. I agreed to it because I had never been in any similar situation before, and I was curious to see where it went. It was an experiment for me. In...

I'm not totally sure where to start, or even if I'm in the right place. All I know is I need a lot of help. So I guess I'll start from the beginning. My fiance (henceforth referred to as W) and I have been together for a little over 2 years. Strictly monogamous until about 8 months ago. W is...