Recent content by Shanti

The asexual community comes to mind, but the majority people there are mono.

This sounds so familiar to what I went through with my last gf. She was in NRE over a person she had just met and wanted to marry them for visa reasons. That was too much for me, since we were engaged to be married and had decided to be primaries to one another. So I left. Sounds like you are...

It sounds like you have a cowboy in your hands, that is a mono person who wants to lead a poly person away from their other relationship(s) to be mono with them. My ex-lover had a similar situation where her new interest couldn't stand seeing her around other men, although he was cool with...

I just want to say that I love reading about your search for balance, I haven't read through your previous blog yet but I've really enjoyed what I've read so far! I have been going back and forth between bi and lesbian my whole life. Now I'm in a place where I'm almost solely attracted to...

Thanks for all the input! I live in a medium-sized town, and I've heard that the local poly get-together attracts anywhere from 5-15 people. I also am looking into possible asexual meetups in the area. I've also thought about beginning new or resuming old hobbies as a way to meet new people. I...

Hi there! *waves shyly* I'm a 26-year-old student, yoga enthusiast and an aspiring vegan. I am female and romantically attracted to both males and females, but currently identify as asexual. I think I am what they call 'polyflexible' in that I can flourish in mono and poly configurations alike...