Recent content by Sheainla

Thank you everyone. I so appreciate all the advice given. I went to my first therapy appointment and was a little worried because I have not connected with a therapist yet and found the right one but he was so awesome. I never knew so much could come out in one our. I felt like I will make...

Wow you all are so right. All of those needs haven't been met and it definitely feels like a one way street sometimes. I guess part of me wants to believe her love tokens and things she says is genuine. Hard to swallow they are all tools of manipulation. I truly thank you all for your advice. I...

You guys have a point. I think she is very much a narcicist and she said last night that this why she hates relationships and this is why it's better to be single and just sleep around. She said if we end she's prob done on relationships all together. I just don't understand people like her. How...

Kevin thank you for your words. I do get other things from the relationship and she can be very loving in other aspects like telling me she loves me all the time and we can talk really wailing and laugh together and have the same values. I also want kids and I'm getting older and I can't do a...

Entrada press Thanks for your input Lea Hmmm don't know if I act in a way. I ask questions and she gets annoyed by the questions and doesn't reallly want to answer them. Like are you interested in this person and do you talk a lot etc etc. when she gets upset I can act needy because I feel...

Wow you are spot on with your analysis of my comments and so right about all of this. Thank you so much for responding and taking the time. I had a conversation today with her and she's pretty much saying I'm pushing her away with me acting the way i am lately so she just wants space. Part of...

Hi everyone, I apologize up front for this long message but I need help so if you have the time please read this. I am hoping to be a regular on here depending on what happens and if the open relationship continues or if I end up leaving the relationship. I am a monogamous person trying to be...