Shirt Potatoes

Married couple (aged 38 (F) and 44 (M)) looking for a bi-sexual woman to join with me and my husband, initially for dating and building trust, but hopefully to lead to something more long term. We are both new to this so please be gentle. We prefer a caucasion, non-smoker. Honesty and loyalty are key as we are seeking a throuple for the long haul. Our marriage is very strong and committed, and we have been happily married for over 10 years. We have complete pleasure in each other's company but would like to explore the possibility of adding a third (female) member to expand our horizons and sexual intimacy. It's more than sex for us however, as we equally want it all to eventually lead to the trust, companionship and friendship that comes out of long term relationships. Must like cats!