Recent content by ShyButHi

For me, it is kind of more than something which is simply "appealing." It really is more like a philosophy of life, based on how I view the world. It is, to me, the natural way things should be... Anyway, it is okay though. We are open about things, especially me, as I like to voice my thoughts...

I like how you think. I too like to look back to our beginnings and try and make sense of it, based on how we evolved, including how we have evolved culturally and societally. Based on how we used to live many thousands of years ago, and even to this day in many cultures, it makes sense to me...

I have thought about these things, yes. Here are some of my thoughts... If someone in the dynamic is thinking there is romantic competition, it likely won't last in my view, or at least won't be healthy. Anyone involved 'should' be open to see who they want as much as they want. That could...

Recently I came to the realisation that I might be polyamorous, but it is slightly confusing. I am in a monogamous relationship, which is great. She is lovely. She has said she is monogamous (though is slightly bi and open to threesomes with other women, apparently). There is something I still...