Recent content by Silentsaturn

I would like to point out a troubling pattern I am seeing here. The replies I am getting are so focused on the potential partner aspect of my topic that everything else is getting ignored. I ask people who reject me or terminate relationships with me why they decided to do so so I can get a...

I've heard that one too many times and it makes me want to beat my head on a wall. It doesn't matter how many times I not only tell people that I have the emotional maturity and intelligence to handle hearing some criticisms, but show them that I can, they still think that I'm going to get hurt...

I agree, letting the small things build up is a very bad thing. That's why I try to regularly check with both myself and my partners/potential partners to see if there has been any kind of build up of the small things and if there has been some build up we sit down, talk it out, and come up with...

In my 5 years of being poly, I have run into this same problem over and over again and It has left me at my wits end. I want to know if there are others who have had this same problem as myself and how did they go about solving it. My problem is this: in almost every polyamorus relationship I...