Recent content by Silkanie

I suppose you could say that I am one of the members of an observed couple that became polyamorous through us, as the original pair, more or less falling in love with the close friends that supported us through our LDR. This conversation is very interesting. I seem to be the only one among my...

Then to start my response, I'm sorry for misunderstanding your choice of methods in your move. I don't want to offend, I'd like to help and in trying to help I do my best to be forwards and to the point. While we get older we might get wiser and be more easily to understand what we want, but...

To answer your initial question, Yes, it is possible, but in my relationship it is basically required that everyone treat everyone as equal and lovingly as possible and that all parties 'are primaries' and our relationship is closed otherwise. To remark on the rest of your situation...two...

My partner and I started out in a long distance relationship that flowered and flowed into a more intricate relationship with partners that had been there for each of us over a long time. Our relationship wasn't closed and is now, I'm typically not an overly jealous person but it was very trying...

Clearly she does though, because she knows you...some people choose to ignore that other people of less 'populous' groups might actually be offended when you ignore that they have a presence, goals and feelings about things too. Honestly...from my experience people who have never been on the...

I don't think this is an abnormal feeling, though in my case long term repeat interactions on both involved parties in the relationship eventually lead to our current form of polyamory and closing the relationship. It's good to have an understanding partner and you have to keep an open channel...

Probably most frustrating about this is that I started getting told I look at relationships in an 'unnatural' and 'abnormal' way before I even knew the word for it. What is even more confusing is that, in America at a minimum, we teach our children we're supposed to love without regard to the...

I too have had some negative opinions voiced in my life, hell in some ways it's like a lot of the LGBTQ and other people in Arizona would rather stomp on other down people in the world than unite. I've had a Mormon Ask me why I would choose to have god hate me. Heard the open and checked...

Gender Queer (Biologically Male), pansexual (though my preferred personality types in partners means I legally lean towards homosexual male).

I have tried a few ways to ask for Foxy's attention and to these problems of mine, he tends to be easy to 'hurt', I'm still trying to figure out how to ask things of him without making him feel overwhelmed or like he's not good enough. The problems with staying in touch with 'Yena are much more...

As a fourth year engineering student I spend about 20-30 hours a week at work, and about 30-40 hours around home doing homework/projects/studying and then another 18 hours in class/on campus waiting for classes. Once a week I go off and play table top with some of my friends for four ish hours...

More the issue is that they check, but they don't always have the energy to respond...we're all so hard pressed right now with all of the effort we're putting into our respective jobs.

Hey there, I'm another rather off in my own area poly, I've gone into detail on my situation in my own thread so I won't post much here. I've been in a poly relationship for about two years this winter...I too came here recently looking for other people that might talk in a positive light and...

I've been actively part of internet communities for over a decade now, and I've seen more than a few potential friendships hurt by people being rude. To bring everyone reading this up to pace on my relationship situation. I have been in a relationship with one of my partners for seven years, it...

To be honest I don't have any clue what is the right way to introduce myself here...I've rewritten this post a dozen times and as both an engineering student and a creative writer this frustrates me quite thoroughly through both my creativity and logic. I have written posts that would babble and...