Recent content by simplyme

It does make me feel lonely because I went in with both mine and CH's interests at heart, and it seems that that has been tossed to the wayside. I'm not a confrontational person and I'm afraid if I do confront everyone on this and ask why the deception, I'll be the one who ends up as the bad guy.

Yes, it is possible, and I didn't think of that. But I do feel it was started under false pretenses, and I don't like people who lie to me, or mislead me in a way that makes me feel as I do now. If he'd told me that's what he wanted, I don't know what to think about that. I have no issues with...

Yes you are. Because I did honestly think that things would go slow. I really did. Yes, I am the one feeling left out, and I've said this numerous times when CH and I have been alone. He deflects back to his usual 'things will get better' phrase. I was onboard when there was the...

The process was a lot of talking, a few outings and I could see fairly quickly that there was some sort of connection between the wife and CH. Me, being fairly reserved, had a bit of a harder time getting to know the husband, but it seemed like we were getting along. Then things seem to change...

Yes, this exactly. I wanted to go slow because I know how I am. I hate change. I freak at change, and this has me on full on panic freakout mode because I'm having to make changes. I am, but not like this. And I don't know what the problem is: it might be me (and this is me talking to deflect...

So..I mentioned in my intro post that I am not new to the ideals. There is a lot of background, but I'll give the TL;DR version - I was raised Mormon, as in that Mormon group with the multiple wives and lots of fun years of therapy. I was lucky enough to get out when I was relatively young and...

Thanks. I'm sure I'll get something up soon.

Hello. I don't do well with intro, and I found the site through Google search. I hate jumping in with a problem, but honestly, this seems to be the place I feel I can go to for advice and help. I hope I can find what I need here.