Recent content by singtoher

idealist is brilliant. I really dig reading her posts. I am very new to ployamory, but my wife has always been up front with me about her bisexuality. Having spent my whole life being heterosexual and monogamous, I didn't really get the full grasp of what that meant until recently, when we...

I will most definitely!

Wow, what a great thread! I attended a UU church for many years before some life changes moved me away. I always felt so blessed when I got to perform for the church services. I do miss the people at my old congretation and have toyed with the idea of going back to visit. This thread has...

Okay, feeling much better. I really enjoy reading through the post on here and something I read last night by Idealist, about being your own primary, cheered me up. And really, it was my hope that my wife and G#2 would be able to hang on their own, and especially when I was out of town. I've...

Well, it had to happen eventually. I am out of town as I have to do more often that I'd like and my wife and G#2 got together without me. I knew they would at some point but my wife had put up a barrier. I guess she wanted to protect me, and in some way G#2, and try to make our triangle a lot...

Things are still pretty sweet. I've become a lot more comfortable with things and exploring love, more comfortable and more creative with the sex. My wife wants this to be an equal triangle, but even though I love G#2, I still see this as being and staying more of a V. We had an interesting...

My song... part 7 It was really fantastic. Just incredible... the whole weekend. So beautiful and full of love. I was amazed. My wife and I had some alone time too as g#2 had things here and there that she needed to deal with. This also turned out really good as it allowed me to discuss my...

My song... part 6 I was raised Catholic, and still consider myself one actually. I had only had sex with three women in my life. And now g#2 was about to be #4. I was terrified. I went to work that day not knowing what I was going to do and not wanting to really deal with any of it. I thought...

My song... part 5 Perhaps a week after that, my wife was coming to terms with her feelings... feelings I had forced her to stuff. I should back up a little bit and say that I had been working from home and then was laid off and so recently before this I had started working out of the house. I...

My song... part 4 One day while over at our house I asked her about this thing she does called reiki. I didn't really know what it was but was curious and she set up an appointment with me. I went over and she asked me what kind of music I wanted to hear. I told her "Whatever, let your iPod...

My song... part 3 We flew home being in a state of bliss. We came home to a dark house. We sat around all day reading to each other, obsessed with the writing style of Gabriel García Márquez. As night fell, we lit candles, as it was the weekend and it would take a while before our electricity...

My song... part 2 I had been primarily a poet when I first met my wife at age 17 and she inspired what I had always considered my greatest poem. A fifty page epic. After we split up I turned to music. But I didn't write it, didn't write lyrics, didn't write poetry. My muse was gone. My...

Okay... how did I get to this point of suddenly finding myself in a polyamorous relationship? Hmmmm... where to begin... I suppose the beginning. I am now 40 years old, but when I was 17 I met the most amazingly beautiful person I have ever seen on this planet in my lifetime. We fell madly in...

Thanks everyone. I do sing to her and her. I am planning to post something a bit longer, but it takes a bit longer to write and it's a matter of having the time to do so. Maybe later. peace and blessings to all.

Hi everyone, just thought I should do a quick introduction. I'm really new to a polyamorous relationship. I never imagined I would be in one and am trying to adjust to it and learn what I can. I'm a 40 year old married male. My wife found this site and I decided to register and not just...