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    issue with fwb but not with boyfriend

    I've had a similar issue with my partner's partners, but sort of the opposite. I tend to get more insecure about my partner being romantically involved with someone. After doing a lot of reading and self analysis, I've realized that it is more about me and my relationships to sex, commitment...
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    Questions about hanging out with my metamour

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts =) Jacket has been very comfortable with the idea of getting to know me and is open to hanging out - I invited him to a hike that I was going on with some friend, but he couldn't go to it so he offered a movie night and coffee shop hang out. We've had a few...
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    Questions about hanging out with my metamour

    BACK STORY My partner, Apple (male, gay), recently started dating a new guy, Jacket (male, gay). They started dating after only three group hangouts, one in which I was present and the other two I wasn't. Since they started dating they haven't been sexually intimate (aside from kissing), but...
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    Why Do I Find it so Hard to Sleep When my Partner is Out?

    I talked with my partner today, after work. Last night, after I wrote this, I actually shared a link to this post with him so he could read it and understand my thoughts on the situation. He read it this morning and we scheduled a time to talk about it after we both finished work. We had an...
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    Why Do I Find it so Hard to Sleep When my Partner is Out?

    Hi there! This is my first post here, so hoping to find some advice since I don't have many poly friends to talk to about it. Sorry in advance for the length, but the details felt necessary. First, a bit of background about my relationship... My partner and I have been together for almost a...
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