Recent content by SlowlySideways

This is exactly where I am at the moment, was about to post the same question, thanks Genebean!!

Vosh, I have just re-read all your posts and I can't get my head around how she is so completely disregarding you and your emotions in all this, why is she so desperate to get it on with this other person right now when she needs to be home with you working this out, it just doesn't make any...

So the main difference between envy and jealousy is that envy is an emotion related to coveting what someone else has, (got this starting now as I am beginning to fall for Angel and am becoming envious of Rose and Angels already close bond together) while jealousy is the emotion related to fear...

G/G, I don't know if they would go for a regular check in time, I think they are both to comfortable with this to feel they need to spend time regularly going over my issues, but when I bring up the need for a talk I will see if they are happy to schedule another one. So I have gone through...

Hi G/G, You raise a very good point which I had not even noticed about the "should" issue, I guess after 15 years of stable emotional bliss where management was not even required it is certainly a new learning curve I am on now!! I understand what you are saying about focusing on what I want...

Hi all, thanks for the great replies. I'm not sure if this is the right time to be posting as Angel was with us last night and I am still riding the wave at this point!! I am not sure about how the sex high is effecting my feelings, I know that I am most settled and calm when we are all...

Hi Bikerdre, I am in a similar situation to yourself and was just curious to know what the timeframes are for you, from meeting your GF to her moving in with you and also roughly what ages you all are?

Hi all, After having a look around here I think this is the right place for me to explain my situation and get some advice from knowledgeable people on why I feel the way I do. Having been in a monogamous relationship for 15 years and happily married for the last 8 of them to my wife (let’s...