Recent content by sm17

"The odds may not be great in either your case or mine, but I think we should keep our minds and hearts open to possibilities. Statistical probability may not be the only "force" at work here(?). " Absolutely the best attitude to take, thanks! And indeed I am meeting more people interested in...

River, yes! You get it exactly. Thank you so much for your compassionate words. That helps me immensely just to feel heard. I have much love for all the people in this situation: my friend/paramour and his new squeeze (who is also a friend of mine). This alternate world which I've been trying to...

Thank you, KC43 and Tinwen, for your responses. In reading them I realized I didn't accurately convey the situation - my paramour and I were engaged in conversations about becoming lovers again when he started dating this other person. He himself was/is a bit in denial about the fact that he is...

Hello all. I've been in a poly/mono marriage for 10 years. My husband is accepting and supportive of what I feel is more than my "lifestyle" choice but actually my sexual/relationship identity - polyamorous. We live in a small town, and my options for finding a paramour here have been limited in...