Recent content by smittenkitten77

Hi... I'm new.. to all of this. I'd really like some advice if possible. I'm having a terrible time controlling my emotions. I have felt like this for more than a week. A strong initial connection with a poly man was not what I was expecting. We have only been seeing each other just over 1 week...

So what do you all do when you want to make other friends in the community? I'm realizing I have no one outside of my situation to chat with just for general questions. Certain things I can definitely talk about in the forums... but I have no idea if anyone in my "group of people" are here too...

Wow... You just made a tough but ridiculously mature decision. I know this all must hurt and I know you don't want to lose time with him. However, even though I'm new to this I definitely understand what it's like already when you are sacrificing nearly all of your time to be the sounding board...

It's a pleasure to be here and thank you for your kind words!!

Great advice :D Yes normal things are fine. He has kids. I have kids. Sometimes there won't be time. But I understand how being new on the scene when he's just a few months into a new relationship with someone else can be unsettling. Definitely feeling NRE big time. I wasn't expecting this at...

Hello. I haven't felt like such an emotional jackass in years... Not since my last really big breakup. I met and became instantly enamored with a man only a week ago. At the end of our date, he explained to me that he is poly... that he has a wife and a new girlfriend. They each have significant...