Recent content by smokymtngirl85

So i need some definitions and terms and being that I am not a person who favors labels i need some help because i do need to narrow it down to something so it makes it easier to explain to family. . . We are going to be "coming out" to our families soon with the type of relationship that we...

Handfastings, alternatives to traditional weddings I need some advice from those with knowledge of alternative wedding ceremonies. I've tried googling and researching, but all I seem to be able to find religious, superstitious, or Wiccan-based alternatives to traditional marriage. We want to...

Me. . . I am female. While I am openly bisexual to those around me. . .I would venture to say I am more pansexual. I have been married to my husband for 11 years. He is very straight. I have been engaged to my fiance for almost a year now. He is bisexual, but not actively or openly. They...

I am a married mother of 3. My husband being my primary. I am his primary and sole partner. He has no plans on obtaining a second. I am also engaged to a wonderful man. I am also his primary and he too has no plans to obtain a second partner. And until recently we were very content that being...

I appreciate the replies everyone =) I at least have a direction to go in now!

Sometimes I wonder if I don't tell people more for my husband's sake. . .I know he doesn't want people to know especially his family. He's always been so obsessed with what people will think about everything. Secretly, I think he's ashamed of me even though he doesn't say so. And I keep holding...

See that is the type of environment I would LOVE to be in. I have looked for groups in my area a tiny bit. But the one group i reached out to still has yet to respond and it just got me even more discouraged than I already was.

Yes and no. My husband and I haven't told anyone on our end. I am a LOT more okay with just letting people find out but he's very much not. We both come from deeply religious families & I have a bunch of law enforcement in my family who would make trouble in a heartbeat, but it isn't the...

I guess this is more of a rant than anything else. I am just so sick of having no one in my life outside of my partners who understands and supports our lifestyle. Im so sick of secrets and I just would LOVE to have some friends who are okay with us and id love to friends who live the same...

Thanks for the welcome!

similar to me Reading through your post & your response, you sound like me. . .7 years ago. My husband was never controlling over things like time & money was he was demanding that i be monogamous. We got married with me going from being openly poly to monogamous and worried i couldn't do mono...

Hi. I am poly and in 2 very committed relationships. :) I am legally & happily married to one partner. I am engaged to my other partner. I know that you cannot be legally married to 2 people cause that's called "bigamy(?)" but we need some direction. :eek: :confused:I need to know if what...

Just me own view Personally, I have been poly all my life. That being said, I am an extremely jealous & possessive person. I am in a dual relationship and both of my guys are naturally monogamous (by choice, I don't force). But they handle their jealousies in order to allow me to be who I am...

Hello everyone I thought I would introduce myself :D Please excuse me if I don't get the terminology correct I'm new :confused: I am 27 years old, bisexual, and polyamorous. . . moving closer to polyandry if i'm getting the terms right. Currently, I am in 2 full committed relationships. I am...