Recent content by snlawesome

how do you link profiles together ? I have seen people do it, and am thinking about trying it, but I don't know how!?!

We have had many more lengthy discussions here about it all. I've cleared up a lot in my head. Part of which is that the whole flirting thing is really my uneasiness about them having a past. Instead of us learning to love this new person together he has someone he already has a level of...

same here I never text anything I expect to be "private" cause there are too many ways it can end up not private. But she knows that, and has been given my number if she wants to talk to me directly; or I could talk to her as well, but for now I'm not going to, as I know she is allready...

I can see both sides of you and your husbands thinking. But in this case, my husband is not really the kind who is always flirting and being suggestive, so when it came up, I was a little shook up by it. I'm feeling right now, that I am fine with them going to dinner Friday, but before...

Exactly!! You just put into words what I couldn't get to come out of my mouth when he and I talked about it about the dishonesty and not respecting me. I couldn't think how I wanted to phrase it, and that is perfect :) But yes, without alot of details the texts were more than just a "hey...

It may seem like he has "control" but really I don't feel that way at all, I am the one who brought up the idea more than he did. I would like a bf, BUT I don't want my fwb to be my bf. I like our relationship the way it is, and I really have no desire to be with him on my own. If he was...

Hey all. I haven't posted much, so quick background, my husband and I have been swinging for 2 yrs, and about 6 mo. ago decided to try a more poly approach than just sex. Right now, he is looking for a gf, for a V or even a triad if it worked out that way. I would like a bf, but he isn't...

Logan Co. which is about 2.5 hrs from Cinci. It's north of Dayton and west of Columbus. There is another member here from the Cinci area but I totally forget their name now

Hi there. We are new here, and new to the idea of poly also. And we are from Ohio also :) I have found so much info here, it's really been helpful in opening up discussions between my husband and I, even though I haven't posted alot.

ok thanks. We met on yahoo personals, so the online dating thing isn't new to us, but it's a whole lot more complicated this way LOL

I had heard that OK Cupid was a site that worked well for looking for a poly relationship, so I signed up. And I must have done something wrong because I am not seeing anyway to specify that we are a couple looking for more. Any tips ?? :confused:

Exactly, which is why it is all talking and thinking right now and not actively seeking anything. Reading about other peoples issues helps us think about things we didn't even think of on our own.

I finally have time for a better intro. I'm L (wife) and my husband is S. We live in Ohio. We've been married for 6 years, and involved in swinging for almost 2 years. But, even when we first started swinging I was more interested in having a "relationship" than just random sex partners. He...

Hey there, I've been lurking around here for a few weeks. I'm not sure I'm poly, or that my husband is, but I'm interested in learning more and thought instead of lurking I would say hello