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    can it be poly if you only have sex with one?

    Only your husband could say for sure but it sounds poly to me. The lack of communication on their part doesn't sound good. Perhaps one of them doesn't want to admit to themselves what is actually taking place. Still, I have no idea what their situation is so I can only add so much input...
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    GF of 4 years makes an announcement

    I could have mis-read it. Sounded like he really wants a monogamous relationship.
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    GF of 4 years makes an announcement

    If your GF is truly Poly, you will not make her happy by forcing her to be in a monogamous relationship. Forcing a non-monogamous person to lead a monogamous lifestyle is incredibly insensitive and selfish. It is like putting a salt water fish in fresh water. It is not an elephant, it is who...
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    How to explain a lack of jealousy?

    My GF and I have an open relationship. The first time she met someone I felt a little funny about it. She then met a couple of others and that didn't affect me at all. Granted she didn't get interested in any of them, but I have become increasingly more confortable with our own relationship...
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    Virginia

    Hi there! I'm from NoVA. I graduated from George Mason.
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    I love skiing! One day I was out skiing and listing to music. My telemark skiing was just coming together that day for the first time. I was having a great time and I felt like I was dancing on the snow!
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    The new spiritual awakening... and poly?

    Society changes painfully slow and not always in the direction you want it to go. The most important changes are always the ones you make within yourself.
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    A Future with Two Women I Love?

    Couldn't say anything any better than this! Well written with much wisdom.
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    Still looking in DC

    Interested in meeting a nice woman for dating. I'm HWP, 5'10" and enjoy a lot of outdoor activities.
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Hello Mag! Straight man, 55 y.o., unmarried and have a primary straight GF. We're new to this and learning.
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    poly or swinging

    I think I'm somewhere in the middle of both worlds. I want to be free to have sex and relationships with people I care about. I don't want to sleep with people I don't care about. I want to be free to persue more than one relationship if I choose and I don't want to be told I can't have a...
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    poly or swinging

    Bravo! Well said! :)
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    My story...

    Thanks for sharing your story. It takes a lot of maturity and courage to have a good poly relationship. At 55, I'm just now getting to the point where I can handle one. It would have been great during my hormonal years; unfortunately, I just wasn't knowledgeable or mature enough to do it on...
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    I read your new member post. Where are you located?

    I read your new member post. Where are you located?
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    Imagine your ideal relationships.

    Right now I think I'm just looking for more companionship. Someone who can be there when I need her and can do things with me. I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives a couple of hours away. We get together on weekends when we can but the 4 hour round trip is rough. Also, she has kids at...
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