Recent content by snwflk818

I know how to cover my tracks just in case he does have some knowledge. But out of the last 10 years he has probably spent 3 locked up, 5 doing illegal activities, and the past 2 with me working as a scrapper and painter/blaster. He didn't even know how to play a video game on the computer. And...

Well one thing I don't have to worry about is him checking the computer. He has no idea how to use the internet, browsing history, cookies, or any of that other stuff. That is something that I am thankful for, that he isn't computer literate.

I don't know anybody around here or even where to go. He has recently moved us up to his home town which is 300 or so miles from my home town. It happens a lot in the state that I live in. Louisiana ranks number one in the nation for women being abused and/or killed by their significant other...

I really thank you for trying to help me. Sometimes it seems that it's the complete strangers that help the most. I am safe for now but I will start a plan to get out.

Snowmelt I believe too that I am in a toxic relationship. It is time for a heart to heart with myself. I just don't know where to start. I would have to go way back to childhood age because that is when abuse started in my life.:(

I went to the website you suggested Gala Girl and it kind of scares me. The relationship I am in reaches a lot of the criteria that has been listed. In fact almost everything on that list has been a part of this relationship at one time or another. :(

Thank You I have been hearing from quite a few ppl that I needed to leave him bc he is too controlling. It is nice to get an answer from someone on the outside. Thank you for everything. ;)

also Also how do I set boundaries? :confused:

I'm A Push Over I have always been a push over. In this current relationship it's more like run over and left as road kill. I feel uncomfortable with the thought of finding him a partner. I mean I am already a shy person and this demand makes me want to bury myself more in my shell. I love...

Okay I am a 21 year old female. My boyfriend is 32 years old. I know that he wants to have other relations with other women. He has told me so. I am not sure what to do. I am what they call a golden retriever, someone who is loyal to the end, a monogamous person. He on the other hand has a very...