Recent content by Sourel

Easy??!! That's funny. No, it hasn't been in the least easy. This started on January 21st, 2010. If you could lose weight crying I'd be a size zero by now. But I did post at a time when it was just "Sourel's Last Stand." I figured if I heard lots of voices telling me I should be open to this...

Did I only mention Vincent's bad points? My bad... He has many, many good points. I'm pretty sure that this whole episode was a bad blip. I think he is going through a serious life crisis. At the time of the miscarriage, we were on two totally different planets, and we didn't get to reconnect...

First off, I'm really grateful for all your replies. The second pregnancy was an accident too. I felt so dead that I didn't even think I could conceive. I guess from my side there was a fair amount of subconscious desire for a child going on, too. My husband saw the pregnancies as a negation of...

I should add some nuances to my initial post. Yes, I love him. Yes, he can be worth it. We also have a five-year old, and I raised his grown sons for the last twelve years. But I feel I shouldn't have to beg for respect. The ultimatum comes from me: I don't wish to continue in the relationship...

I'm hoping you guys can give me some advice. I'm sorry if this is a little long. This is the abridged version! I have agreed to change my monogamous marriage into a polyamorous one to honour my partner Vincent's desire for a new way of love. I'm hoping to see some benefits for myself too...