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they are going to spend the weekend talking. the waiting is going to drive me mad

he hasn't said why and I'm trying not to push. he did say that things she was doing were affecting him and that she didn't care about his feelings. he knows that I'm here when he's ready to talk

so much has been told to me within the course of a day. D and I are taking a break. he's in the process of losing his wife. I cannot in good conscience ask him to continue with me. I don't want to put added strain on him. We're still friends. he knows that I'm here if he needs me. I want to make...

Thanks. hugs are always needed and much appreciated

been wondering for the past 3 weeks if the lonliness will abate. if this is me needing more than I can possibly have right now. my weeks have been crazy and I need someone to talk to but don't feel that I can always talk to D. Especially since there's his wife, me and 2 others. I've tried online...

I am recently guilty of the email breakup, but he had a temper and I felt it was way safer. I usually man up and do it in person even though I end up in tears.

YES! Thank you! I have friends like this. then they get mad when I just ignore the text. I have a life folks.

people that are OCD about counting calories. and have to talk about it all the freaking time.

going over to someone's house and them not offering you a drink. this drives me INSANE! maybe it's just because my parents brought me up differently. standing in line for 10 minutes, getting to the counter and still not knowing what you want. you've had 10 minutes. you should have used it...

you don't know how close to home you just hit with that last part. I no longer feel the constant manic buzz that I felt with monogamy. I know that D will support me when I have another partner. (I just lost the one I had. good riddance) peace of mind is a wonderful thing

well no need to discuss the guy I was seeing as he turned out to be a not so nice person

it's not hogging the blankets...it's your way of inviting him to cuddle when you're asleep :D

it's good to know that it does get better. I just have to get used to it.

i'm working on the whole 'accepting the time I get to spend with him thing'. it's just that reading this thread makes me a bit jealous. I don't get sleep overs. I only get a few hours a week. it'll all work out though.

If i'm lucky I see D once a week. I see E a bit more but it's a newer relationship. I have my alone time but D is that one person I can bounce things...anything...off of and not be worried that I'm not making myself clear. unfortunately it's been 2 weeks since I've seen D. I don;t know about...