Thanks, that's really helpful.
The kink socialisation is definately helping, and we've agreed that we are going to put poly relationships off of the table for 6 months. That gives us time to relax into the kink and social circles.
Thanks again.
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My wife and I have been married for 11 years or so. We're very committed to each other and believe that a marriage and love both require work, not just something that...