Recent content by SpMd

Hi @Magdlyn, as with my earlier comment, I concede I had a difficult time with some of the language of the responses. I’m sure from many of the posters’ perspectives, they were giving a form of tough love and speaking plainly, which I’m not holding against them. I just found myself wanting to...

But importantly, it helps that she doesn’t feel like it has to get figured out in a single discussion. However, the discussions won’t be stopping either until we figure out a solution. This keeps just the right amount of pressure on while forcing both of us to keep readdressing it. You might...

Thank you. I suspect @Fogul would agree with me that there really is something to say about having so many things that do work in a relationship, so many ways in which they truly are wonderful, that you can’t help but want this to just be a tiny item in the “con” list that is so outweighed by...

Hi Fogul. I was returning here after my own post (https://polyamory.com/threads/life-can-bring-surprises.155272) which you’ll find has quite a lot of commonalities with yours. I think I may have some practical advice to share with you. In fact, I might turn this into a post of its own around...

Again, thanks for all the feedback. The last 72 hours have been a whirlwind. I've been very head down in learning about asexual-allosexual relationships. It's been especially cathartic to read many stories that sound exactly like mine in both the blogs and forums. Sometimes they are worked...

Thank you all for the feedback. I'll concede this is a very new experience sharing this online, even if behind an anonymous account. I'm used to using forums for technical queries or surface social purposes. I'm surprised at how difficult it's been coming to terms with this being an issue and...

Hello everyone. I'm currently in a wonderful marriage and very much in love with my wife. However, while we had a lot of sex in the beginning, there were signs she might not be into it as much as I was, which I took then as just the dynamic typical of sex drive differences between men and...