Recent content by spookymulder

again, thank you all. you have been a guiding light to me in this sad time. B and I have had minimal conversation since the conversation about space, just an e-mail she sent me, but she expressed great sadness and apology for the energy she has been putting off and for "pulling me into it in...

hello, just an update and perhaps a conclusion to my story. after a few days of small talk while she is away for the holidays, B has asked for space and a break from our relationship. she felt as if the communication and support that i was trying to put forth was very smothering and gave her...

thank you for your input, bookbug. i'm very glad to have learned of your experiences, i feel more energetic towards communicating with B. the best thing that i gleaned from your post is that it's worth the struggle if you care about someone. i know it takes hard work, sometimes slow and painful...

hello everyone, thanks for reading and i hope that i can get some advice on my particular situation. i really admire this forum and i've appreciated reading and learning from everyone and your experiences thus far. here's the outline of my situation: me, female, 2 months into a V type...

hello everyone, it is so nice to find a renowned and open community to talk about relationships. my name is jess, 23, i identify as queer and have been actively pursuing open relationships for a few years. i started identifying as poly a few years ago. i am currently in my second poly...