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    New to allllll this jazz

    Hi. I am fairly new to this too although I've been in a long term relationship. It's a different and amazing dynamic adding someone into it.
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    Three's Company

    I initially posted in the wrong forum. I'm so giddy I want to post this again with updates. Me 38F, married 15yrs to Hulk 42M who met She-Ra 25F at the gym in Octoberish. I noticed She-Ra appear on his Instagram and FB and did some stalking he was coaching her at the gym. I was not...
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    Having Visitors in a Shared Home

    Even without the back story, I would be livid. My needs, hubby's needs GF's needs all come a distant second to the need for my children's safety. His thinking is incredibly selfish not to consider that and I don't care if the conviction is 1 year of 40 years ago if I don't know someone and...
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    Navigating this Life

    It was meant as an introduction. One that I guess was worded clumsy. Pretty much in a staying together for their child situation. Separate bedrooms and all. As for the statement about me being ok with it. The conversation was long but I was summarizing. Basically I told him that she was...
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    Navigating this Life

    It was more complex than that, he has trouble reading emotions and he was reading both of us wrong and admits he over reacted and freaked. It wasn't like he was off the rails angry he simply stated that he was a little bummed that they didn't have a moment alone. Since the "freakout" as it...
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    Navigating this Life

    First I'll quickly outline the situation. Me: 38F, married 3 kids with Hubs starting relationship with GF Hubs: 42M, married 3 kids w/me been seeing GF a few weeks GF: 25F, married 1 child with her hubs in relationship with me and hubs. Hubs and I have had a open but not frequently...
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    Hello From Northern California

    Hi, I'm a 38 yr old married mother of three. My husband and I recently found ourselves quite unexpectedly head over heels in love with a woman which has pushed us from occasional swinging to a poly relationship. I want to learn about living this life and this seemed like a great place.
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