Recent content by starflower

Thanks for your thoughts. The 'rule' of not having sex with others was mutually agreed after a trial period of opening the marriage, which didn't feel right for either of us. It's not something I imposed on her like a jealous ultimatum or anything. However I realise I do need to just accept...

sportanla dual Thank you everyone, you have given me lots to think about. TenK everything you have written here is really helpful and resonates so much. I'm glad the consensus seems to be that it's ok that I feel like this, I was worried I was being really selfish and mean for needing some...

Thank you, GalaGirl and AlwaysGrowing. Yes it is about sex and any kind of intimacy like kissing or cuddling. I stiffen up, it's like an involuntary reaction. Which is sad because she comes home happy and horny and I would like to be able to share that with her! I am thinking about the root...

Hi, I would be really grateful for some advice from you lovely people, please. I am a woman happily married to another woman for 10 years. Last year she told me she wanted to open our relationship as she was craving a kink dynamic again after 15 years away from the scene. This was totally...