Recent content by SterlingMagpie

I have not had the chance, or the confidence, to tell him yet. Everything I think of as an excuse to spend time with just Him, feels forced or uncharacteristic for me. We've also both been busy with changes in our employments, and a mutual friend going through a rough time.

242 Thank you all for the suggestions, they've definitely helped me feel more confident with the situation. At the very least, I've been more comfortable with being more open with a few more friends - which has proved to me that my situation is probably a lot simpler than I'm making it out to...

My husband and I have tried having a shared 3rd partner in the past, and it hasn't quite worked out. Our interests in people haven't been balanced, resulting in an unbalanced relationship. After a lot of discussion, we're open to both of us seeing other people. I have a friend that knows my...