Recent content by sugarhigh980

Does anyone know if you can change your username? I wanted to change mine 5 minutes after I created it, but can't see an option for doing so. I wonder if I need to start from scratch...

Thanks you guys! I just needed a boost to keep myself moving forward. I will keep having discussions with the hubby to get to the bottom of this and hopefully come up with a mutually beneficial solution.

See? I knew you guys would have insightful perspectives. Sometimes it's too hard to see the gray line when you are so close to a situation.

Wow, I wish I had read this thread before I posted my own in the "new" category. Same questions, awesome answers. Lots of food for thought here. I'm just really glad to know that I'm not the only one in this forum who's not sure I should be here. Thanks for sharing!

...or am I just selfish? ...or bored? I came to this forum looking for answers and identified with so many of the threads that I jumped to the easy assumption that what I'm feeling is polyamory. But after further introspection, I'm wondering if I was just passing the buck, so to speak. For...

I've got ears and navel pierced. One tattoo on each shoulder and your typical butterfly tramp stamp. The photo is from my wedding. I'd like to get another tattoo to tie the gecko into the B&W art on the left.

Bwahahahahahah..........LOVE IT!

Hello from the tropics! I'm a straight, 30-year-old female in a closed marriage of 5 years. I'm currently struggling with the notion that I might be poly and trying to figure out how/when to discuss this with my husband. I just breached the subject with my therapist last week and will...

Well, I must admit it's not as hypothetical as I would like. Although to be honest, the question was actually hypothetical as I wanted to just get other poly opinions on this particular brand of sticky situation. For the record, I am currently in a closed marriage and have just begun to...

Would anyone out there ever consider a relationship with someone who is currently involved in a closed marriage? Obviously this is not an ideal situation by any means, but what if you really care for this person and have a very close bond and desire? Is it your responsibility to walk away from...

IMHO, your wife should definitely be willing to see a therapist with you, even if you begin to see a therapist on your own and bring her to a session or two. (My therapist offered this as an option when I talk about problems with my husband.) If she truly loves you and wants to continue in a...