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Thanks Kevin for your direct assessment of the situation and the options suggested.

Thank. I totally agree I have been unassertive and passive. I am addressing this issue in myself now. I appreciate your suggestions in edit2.

Thanks Luna Bunny. I agree Grape and Blueberry would not stop their relationship if anyone asked them to. Thus I don't think Blueberry would ask me to stop my relationship with Strawberry. I don't think I have a right to ask them to stop but rather look at my own behaviour. An option would be to...

I would not behave the way Blueberry is behaving myself. Taking a very black and white/right and wrong view I think Blueberry is acting in an unethical way. Looking in a less hardlined dogmatic way this is a grey area where Peach and Grape maybe working on healing their relationship and moving...

The cast Mango (44) M nesting partner with Blueberry for 26 years (I am Mango) Blueberry F(43) – nesting partner with Mango Strawberry (39) F – secondary partner with Mango ( 7 months relationship) Grape (60) M – nesting partner with Peach and secondary partner with Blueberry Peach (61) F –...

Thank you all for your thoughtful responses. What if Mango does not want to come clean to Nutella?

Hey all Thoughts/comments welcomed on this ethical issue. (K) is in a relationship with (B) and (M). B and M know about each others relationships with K. However M has a wife (N) who does not know about K and M's relationship and being poly. B, M and K have different ideas about what to tell N...