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Update: we chatted more deeply about this, and we're spending longer periods of time in-person. Thanks to everyone who weighed in!

Thanks for weighing in and showing so much concern as I find my way into this space! I don't think I mentioned that he "just wants tons of sex," it's more that we have limited in-person time these days for reasons that seemed beyond the scope of my post. But yes, the quick date once a week feels...

Fair! Much of the drama I've heard about so far is structurally agnostic - would happen in monog/non-monog/poly, or any other dynamic.

Thanks for the comparison. I think my question/situation may have been less clear than I anticipated. We definitely have an investment in each other past sex, as I mentioned re: vulnerability, trust, proactive emotional support. I'm (un)fortunately quite familiar with red flags of all shades...

Yes, it's like this. Thanks for acknowledging the dynamic I described is a genuine connection.

Great advice - thank you!

Ok great - I totally hoped that's what someone would say! Heard, agreed, and perhaps I made it sound like they're constantly suggesting we have sex instead of enjoying those places. That's not the case. We have a strong connection, solid communication, and lots of empathy and emotional...

Hello! I'm curious to hear how much of your time with your non-primary/non-nesting partner centers on sex. Details: I've had a partner for about 6 months whose date ideas primarily involve sex - sex at their place, my place, their car, in public, etc. We are both adventurous & have remarkable...