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I broke up with him two years ago shortly after he relapsed because it instantly made my life to unmanageable. I am also sober and have been an active member of a 12 step program for 12 years. That’s where I met my partner 10 years ago. I started dating someone six months after he and I...

Thank you all for your responses! I agree. He needs reassurance. I’m happy do give him that as long as it doesn’t get in the way of my poly experience (as one of you so aptly put it). He has served 1 of 3 years with 2 more to go. That would be the earliest he could get out. He’s a few states aka...

I’ve read a bunch of books about polyamory and open relationships and have not found answers to my unique situation. My partner of many years is currently incarcerated and will be for another two years. He had been sober for a period of time, relapsed on drugs, and stole a bunch of things… If...