Thank you for all of the kind welcome notes :)
Ravenscroft: those are very useful analagies! I especially like the advice from your Realtor friend, and yes it makes sense for me to be 'tapping the brakes' just a little bit - this sounds like a safe way for me to take my first steps forward, so...
Hello everyone,
I just wanted to introduce myself - my name is Ben, and this is my first post here.
I am really glad to have found this community! After a lot of talking and serious discussions about the idea, my fiancée and I (both in our mid-30s) are about to try gradually adding an open...