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    Giant plea for help

    I'm all fine, OnceAndFuture. Everything is over and life is already much less stressful. Thanks for the advice everyone! <3
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    Giant plea for help

    Update: So... She punched male friend in the face (over a misunderstanding wherein I thought he had told her I was at his place because I had no phone charge and he thought I'd told her). I have said that I will see her tomorrow and that we either need to go on a break and start again from the...
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    Giant plea for help

    I thought I'd post a bit of an update. I've been away for work this week which I've had a lot of time by myself to think and reflect on everything. For now, I'm not going to accept that my girlfriend and I are just deeply incompatible. I think that with time she will become more okay with us...
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    Giant plea for help

    I've been told off by male-friend. He said "I'm mainly going on holiday because I like X and spending time with her It probably has poly benefits, and these problems are why you shouldn't come even though I'd prefer if you could, but it's not *why*, so much" There we go. This part is clearer now.
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    Giant plea for help

    I don't really have much of a burden at the moment but yes, you are correct. I did consider that when looking for a relationship. I don't usually feel close enough to friends to want to live with them/rely on them for actual life things. I think I would prefer the multiple primary partners open...
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    Giant plea for help

    Hi Kevin, Firstly thanks for your advice! I always reassure her that I do love her and that me wanting to be with other people doesn't in any way devalue how I feel about her. I really don't want to break up with her because we want a lot of the same things in life and I can see this working...
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    Giant plea for help

    Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to what I've said and come up with some really good comments for me. I don't know what form of Asperger's I have got. I was diagnosed 2 years ago and I don't follow any clinical management but I'm on medication for depression which was changed...
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    Giant plea for help

    Warning: This post is going to be long. Hello. I (Maybe asexual, bi-romantic) met my SO (Bisexual, homo-romantic) online in August of last year. We met up as friends a few times then went on a date and that was that. I bought up the topic of polyamory on our first date in the spirit of...
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    Hello from England

    Hello all, I have joined this forum as I need a place to talk about the poly side of my life and get advice while being anonymous. I am a girl in my twenties. I am in a relationship with another girl in her twenties. We have been together for about 8 months and this is the first time trying...
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