Recent content by swankychicky

Wow, I can't believe how much reading your replies has helped me! In answer to some of your questions: They will not be monogamously married. They've both told me that. They say that nothing will change, but I think what Tonberry said about feeling lesser makes a lot of sense. I hadn't been...

Hi All! My question is this: I have been in my first polyamorous relationship, as a secondary, for about 1 ½ years. I am madly in love with Brett. When we met, one of the first things he said was, "I am in love with my girlfriend, but we date other people," so I knew what I was getting into...