Recent content by SweetP18

I don’t think so either, because that was a big clue that it seemed that he or both wanted more. Yes, that’s what I would hope, the friendship first, and then see if we have a connection to go to the next step. You hit it right on the nail with the 2nd wife. I am not sure if and when that...

I don’t think we thought about separate relationships. I did at one point mention to bow out and let them continue what they have going on. It seemed like KTO is what we are leaning towards in our dynamic, I would say within the next two years, or so. No, we both haven’t discussed dating others...

Ok thanks! Yes I would love to meet other folks in the lifestyle. Ok I’ll look into the book! Yall have given so many links podcasts and book! I love it! Copy on parallel vs kitchen!

Hi Magdlyn, I got busy with kiddos so definitely wasn’t on purpose. Kinda hard to follow which posts I replied to. Yes, he has been talking to her, but he has known her for over 20 yrs. They just recently got together sexually. Yes, green light for sex only. The then was before me. It was never...

Hi Magdyln, Thank you for your reply! I guess I prefer to be friends first and see if there is a connection before sex is involved. I guess that’s how I've always seen it, or how it was portrayed on TV, which I know is sad, but that’s my only interaction I have had with it, honestly. I felt...

Hi Tinwen, Agreed, but I guess my issues is this: if they were stating that the reason for their connection was to include me, and the past year it hasn’t been brought to my attention, and I see the texts, it just seems suspect and sneaky. Along with my spouse stating “I love you baby," it just...

Hi Galagirl, Thank you for your reply. I guess what I am trying to say is, is it best to bring someone into the marriage that my spouse already had some type of connection with, or should it be someone we both don’t completely know and get to know them together? I understand those points you...

Hi Kevin thank you for reply. I appreciate it. I’m willing to hear it all out, but I feel so indifferent that I feel like it could block me from hearing and being completely open-minded. I don’t want to go into this with a negative notation. I’m worried that I would be neglected. That is one of...

Hi Evie Thank you so much for responding. Shoot, I’m probably confusing myself, so my bad. The type of poly would be initially hanging out, being friends, and then sex being introduced if we connected. I was under the impression we would both met said person together and discuss to be on the...

I have always been intrigued in poly as a single woman, but now that I’m married it has been brought up. Is it best to bring on someone you might have mutual friends? My spouse has been friends with this individual for quite some time, as well as had intercourse 1–2x in the friendship. I have...