Recent content by swimmingordrowning

1421 Update: My husband has decided, for reasons that I do not totally understand, that this situation is taking too much energy and he wants to work on our marriage and cease contact with the other person. I am left feeling dazed, fearful that this might reoccur, and confused. He literally...

the real question I appreciate all your responses. I guess I am trying to ask if anyone of you who is a successful polyamorist has dealt with feeling extremely jealous of your partner's other relationship(s) and how did you deal with it? I don;t know any successful polyamorist people in real...

wow I'm finding it really surprising that this polyamory forum is so unilateral. I came on here because I expected you all to defend him and tell me how to approach opening up to this, instead I'm hearing things I would expect most monogamous people to say. I'm sure I'm not conveying things...

Thank you for responding. As far as I know, they haven't had physical/sexual contact, but he did stay out with her all night twice before telling me. He says he just wanted to make sure there was something to tell me. I know they have talked about being in love, having a child, etc. Since I...

I've been married for ten years. Suddenly (at least to me) my husband is interested in fucking the babysitter, having her move into our house, and having a child with her. We have been "discussing" this for three months with a tremendous amount of emotional turmoil for everyone involved...