Recent content by Syl

Chimera: Yes, I think you're right about them not really ready for a ltr yet and it certainly doesn't feel like a healthy dynamic for me. I'm actually 19, younger than they are (they're 22). It doesn't sound harsh, it sounds like the cold slap of reality. One that I have been questioning the...

Yes, I realize that is probably the reason why they want me for a relationship. "• As far as knowing that one would want more than one partner goes, that's not unusual among poly folk." I'm sorry, I'm not making all of the connections and understanding here. Could you elaborate?

First, I want to say is that I'm not trying to imply that everyone who is poly is just using it as a crutch. That being said that doesn't mean everyone who claims to be poly are actually poly. Some just want to justify cheating or sleeping around etc. I'm just curious if anyone thinks my lover...

I'm joining to seek some advice (and after my intro will post in the proper section asking for it). While I am not polyamorous, my lover identifies as such. Yes, someone who is mono + someone who is poly = high probability for a spectacular mess. I am a cheerful pessimistic who understands this...