Recent content by tecklemino

My wife had a father that pretty much ignored her because she wasn't "one of the boys", and my girlfriend never really had much in the way of any responsible parents. It left both of them with a lot of self doubt and self esteem issues. DD/lg is the dynamic they feel safest and most...

I dont know if this will help explain our relationship any better, but both my wife and girlfriend are submissive in the D/s sense. They both ask me to provide guidance, purpose, and motivation. I am often pushing both of them to accomplish things they didn't think they could do. Its what...

She has been getting better every year. And yes, she is medicated, goes to a psychologist and psychiatrist, etc. She is also Bipolar type 1, so even though her general trend is improvement, it will likely always be an issue we we have to actively address. By the way, i have not been trying...

I probably should have responded to this sooner. Sorry, i live a very busy life. If i were deployed or TDY, i probably would have already responded to it. Anyway, i have been polyamorous for most of my marriage. Im aware of how i will emotionally respond to situations. My wife suffers...

For me, i just like seeing my wife and girlfriend happy. My thoughts dont really go any farther than that. I wouldnt try to pin any of it to sex specifically. I feel no emotional difference between my partners being happy because they just had sex versus them being happy because they just got...

Maybe i just make it worth it to them? Whatever the case, they don't stay with me out of a sense of patriotism. That notion is kinda absurd. They both know they are free to live as they want, and that is exactly what they are doing.

I am at home right now. Im always bouncing in and out though, ill be gone again soon. Things are going well with my girlfriend. She is quite a bit younger than my wife, but is better able to handle finances and take care of animals. My wife and girlfriend get along great. We would not be...

Well, my wife ended up finding someone who seems to have his shit together. She had to get a little tipsy to respond to his first message(social anxiety), but they have been talking for almost a month now and have gone on a few dates. They were intimate on their last date and she came back...

My wife is the one who brought it up. To be honest, i likely won't even be around when she meets someone she clicks with.

Actually, im not even sure what my question is. Maybe i just need to organize my thoughts... So, i am in the military. I am combat arms, in a position that deploys half of every year. During the time that i am home, i am usually away on TDY in training. I end up being home about two months...

ok, so, if i am mostly west slavic, does that make me caucasian by this polls standards? most people cant tell the difference... the last person i dated was a bisexual black jewish girl. who was raised by a biracial gay couple. what is the point of this thread again?

E is our girlfriend. Aki is my wife. I think ill refer to E by a pet name we have for her from now on... jundibear.

So, a lot has happened since my last update... My sister, my niece, and the friend of the family moved out into their own place. And this has dramatically changed the entire atmosphere in our home. E has changed quite a bit. Its insane just how much she seems to have matured. Its like...

Yeah... I think the way i experience love is hard for most people to grasp. I have been beaten, tortured, and even declared dead. I have fought in three wars as combat arms and have lost enough close friends to fill half a company. Hell, just recently the team i was origionally supposed...

Lol, its good to know that i am not the only one! Yes, it certainly does impact online dating. Usually, i just want to chat with people, but it seems that 99% of people who do online dating would rather flirt right off the bat. I think that even when they are trying to pique the...