Recent content by TheCubist

Looks like you're getting something out of this relationship after all. That's good, because if you get married you'll get a chance to get to know all sorts of new men.

That's because this guy is more important to her than you. I know it's easy to say because I'm not there in your shoes .. but I'd really consider leaving the relationship. It's not good for you and your self respect.

That's not an intro to polyamory. It's an intro to cheating. You weren't given any choice besides "take it or leave it".

If she cared about his feeling in the first place she never would have cheated on him. She also wouldn't have told him that she was no longer attracted to him. This is beyond his asking to have his feelings respected. He's been kicked out and he knows it - he just doesn't want to swallow the...

Forget it, brother. You went from the primary, to the secondary, to the third wheel, and now you're left to beg for scraps. If you have any doubt, don't IM or communicate with her until she contacts you. Let's see how long that takes. Please forgive me, but I"m beginning to suspect this is...

Except he has no leverage. He couldn't even set the limits of her not seeing someone else in the first place. She already stated that she wasn't attracted to him anymore. She already is hot and heavy with this other guy to the point where they're going to move in together. What is he backing...

I'm no polyamory expert, but looking at it from here I notice that this polyamory thing was forced on you. It was either that or hit the bricks. I get the impression you went along with it simply to be able to hold on to her. By invoking polyamory, she was able to avoid a messy scene and be...