Recent content by Thegreysea

We're pretty new to it. Together monogamous for 16 years. Openish for 6 months. It's a lot easier once both of you have found someone to see in our experience. I don't think your husband is getting anything out of this atm. Correct?

I'm not here to complain about it. It is what it is. But I'm a very curious person and find it interesting to wonder why it's the case. There are some things people have said that seem mutually exclusive. On the one hand, it's harder for men to find dates, most would agree. On the other hand...

This is really useful for us so thanks to all those who offered their thoughts. The advice to me has been to be patient, flirt irl, and don't keep score. Messaged received loud and clear. Do you have any advice for my wife? She's about to meet a nice handsome athletic man in his thirties...

Thanks for responding. I was wondering whether you had any idea why men tend to find someone for a long term relationship sooner? For every man in a long term relationship there is a woman in a long term relationship.

Dear poly experts, We're still finding our feet and having many long discussions. All we know for sure at the moment is that we're not monogamous. Our history is 14 years of monogamy and two years of non monogamy. Why open up? We both wanted new friendships and we're curious about sleeping with...