Recent content by thepaleob

Thank you, that is very beautifully worded. I am feeling this change based on not looking at my partner as 'someone who's out to hurt me by being with someone else' but rather 'someone who wishes to share his/her life with me and enrich it' irrespective of whether other partners exist/do not...

Thank you Kevin! Yes I've found great refuge and solace after reading various posts on this forum (a lot of threads in spirituality & polyamory). I've also read "Ethical Slut" and found it very helpful. My next book is "Sex at Dawn". Me & my GF skyped the other day and I showed her the...

Hello everyone, I'm a mono guy opening up my mind to poly ideas with my GF, maybe getting close to becoming a Monomour (my GF is bi). My GF is wonderful, she & I have been close for 5-6 months now. She casually used to mention how nice it'd be to go hook up with a girl (all in playful jest ...

My first post, I've something to say! Carson, Hello! This is my first post on this forum, and as you can tell by the fact that I zoomed in on your thread here, I'm experiencing something very similar to what you've described. I'm a mono cismale , maybe getting close to becoming a Monomour...