Recent content by TheRockierRoad

My apologies to thequickbrownfox then, for taking the post the wrong way possibly :). Thank you all for your comments!

@TheWind, thanks for your encouragement. First off, thanks for taking the trouble to respond, and wishing me luck, it is much appreciated! However, I do feel this post is a bit disrespectful. In my world vew, monogamous people are not poly people repressing their true feelings, and vanilla...

No decent update as of yet. I felt there'd been enough heaviness and drama for a bit so just enjoyed him and us as we are. Things are definitely growing closer, I'll leave the actual explicit chat be for a couple of weeks. Thanks all, I'll post back at some point about it :).

Thank you very much for taking the time to answer. In regards to my heart it's pretty much too late I'm afriad, has been for a while now, but I have been trying to focus more on other things, like organising small stuff and getting more involved in my local kink community, funnnily enough, and...

Thank you for your response. I have also been there, and done that, and it ended it me breaking the heart of a very good man who did nothing wrong into a million little pieces. Not an experience I want to have again, to be sure. Hence a shitload of soulsearching and posting here, asking friends...

He's followed my wild side on some occasions, not on others. I generally feel safe to let myself get a little wild around him, but not too much as of yet. As to the letter; no response yet, as I left it this morning and he's at work :). I see him again over the weekend, I suppose we'll chat...

Thanks!

Yes, in the sense that we've had discussions in which these things have come up, and I wrote him a letter that basically communicates this and some other things in a more structured way, like it's written here, that I left on his pillow this morning (I tend to do that to help me think things...

Hi all :)! Nice to meet you. Brand new member here, and other than a post in the introductory thread, this is my first one, yay! Basically, this is going to be a monolith of a post, so bear with me. Anyone who makes it to the end gets brownie points, people who then take the trouble to respond...

Hi all! Nice to meet you! Just joined! Currently in Oxford enjoying myself. Main reason for joining is an interest in exploring poly in combination with a very complex situation with a mono, which I will write about in another thread for some advice. Have been doing my research, but input is...