Recent content by TheSoberStripper

After re-reading my OP, I guess I see why you might think I'm trying to force it. I'm really not though. I'm just disappointed and having my own insecurities about my relationship with Eric.

I'm not sure where people are getting the notion that I'm trying to force it. I told him to let her know that I wanted to meet her but have repeatedly expressed that it's ultimately her choice. I don't expect her to be best friends. At all. I don't blame her for her reaction and I understand...

I understand that it's her choice. I feel badly because she called him crying saying she feels insecure and hurt by his actions and I know how that feels. I know I don't know her but I feel badly that I'm indirectly causing her pain.

I don't know. I thought that was kind of a part of this whole thing. He wants us to meet and I am interested in meeting her because she's an important part of his life. Also, I didn't ask for her number. He asked her if it was ok to give me her number and she said yes. He gave it to me and I...

Hello, I'm new to poly but I'm enjoying it so far. I'm dating two men right now, both of whom are in primary relationships. Paul dating another poly woman. They've been together 2 years and both actively date others. Eric is dating a monogamous woman. They've been together 6 months. The...