Recent content by ThirdWheel

Good Luck I hope you are right with what you want to do. This manipulative pyscho will most probably cause some type of scene before she goes. She's loosing what she views as her property, that would be you. These types of unstable people were taught by their parents to be abusive and they...

Even a cheap motel would be better than being around this crazy person. If it's a mater of money, for her, can't you just wire her the few of hundred it would take? being away from this nut job is the only safe thing to do.

Holy Cow! Just get away from the psycho. If she's out on Saturday, go stay with a friend, take anything of value you have and put it in your car and go to a hotel if you have to. I've dated women like this before and you just don't know what is truth, what is just talk, and what they will or...

I've got a hairy chest and a pirate costume. Does that come close enough?:D

There is never anything intimate about rape! On behalf on the male of the species, I apologize. Rape is about anger and domination. The assholes who do that should be shipped off to a deserted island and given a pistol with one bullet. I hope you know that there are men in the world who are...

Since I am the third wheel (M), I don't worry too much about my gf leaving me for her husband. LOL She and I get along extremely well. That does occasionally cause some issues between her and her husband. He and I are friends. We have talked quite a lot about our situation, but it is still hard...

I doesn't matter what other people feel. I would suggest you follow your heart, open up the communications and talk about everything. I am in no position to judge anything or anybody. And as far as Jerry goes, this entire forum, me included, would probably make for one hell of a show. This...

To me (as a man), the act of penetration is not what brings intimacy to my relationship with my gf. How close can anyone be physically is only a matter of a few inches. True intimacy comes from a meeting of the minds, imo. The most intimate moments my gf and I have shared have not involved my...

Something about glass houses.... Something about glass houses and stones comes to mind here. From what I've experienced, many people from the so-called "normal" world would have a a squick and/or gut check about most anything they read here. The concept of poly seems to be beyond the...

Hi, I'm not really ready to go public with my story yet, since I'm still in a learning mode. But, I can tell you a little about my situ. I'm in a Vee with my girlfriend at the center and her husband as the other leg. She and I met while swinging which was set up by her husband. We fell in love...

Hi, What part of Georgia are you in and do you have any advise for dealing with a triad? I'm in a Vee with my girl and her husband. She and I are very much in love and I'm friendly with her husband and we get along with each other well, but he is having some jealouy issues. Any insight would be...

Hi folks, just found this site and learning about the poly lifestyle. I fell into a triangle situation recently and I'm trying to gain some perspective on how to keep the train on the tracks. I've read a few of the posts here and everyone seems very supportive, so I thought I should just start...